Cancer Update 1/19/25

Today finds me three days into my chemotherapy treatment, in a sort-of keeping food down, bit-nauseous-bit-pukey state. Yes, chemo is everything I have heard of, and nothing I thought I’d have to deal with.

I started treatment in Bend, which turns out to be a big relief because of all the modifications Kirk and I have been making to the house to help me get around and access the things I need during this time. Now the proposition of traveling a few hours to see my doctors seems unimaginable, and in fact, my oncologist lives just a few blocks from me (not that he’s making house visits…at least not yet!).

The agonizing period of waiting for treatment to start is now over, and things seem to be moving along at a pace I am having trouble keeping up with, but I appreciate the sense of urgency in my care team because yes, it is all quite urgent. I can’t walk anymore, so I am regulated to a wheelchair for now, so that’s adding a whole other layer to this uncomfortable state of being I find myself in. Apparently the tumor in my right hip/lower back is weakening the bone to a degree that my doctors worry about a fracture should I put my full weight on it. Fortunately the hip/lower back is the first place they will target in my radiation treatment, which should start soon. Radiation will harden the bone, blast away the cancer, and reduce my pain so maybe I can get some of my mobility back.

Kirk is taking a leave of absence to help me through this time, and I’m so grateful because I can’t do much of anything on my own any more, other than spill things and drop things on the floor out of reach. My fabulous friends in Bend have been keeping me fed and entertained, and will be starting a meal-train soon, so those who want to show their support through food (my favorite kind!) will be able to sign up to do so shortly.

I’m sure there is plenty more you all wish to hear about, but at this time know that I’m well cared for, at home, and getting through this moment by moment.

Much love to all of you who have contributed to my support, sent me letters and texts, and shown their love. I am so grateful to all of you.